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Published: 2012-04-08 17:38:37 +0000 UTC; Views: 817; Favourites: 25; Downloads: 1
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I've become completely fed up with the things that go on. I posted this on the group Dear Anonymous on Facebook the other night and so far the comment has 5 likes and one comment.I do not own facebook
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Oh boy, I bet you think you're edgy.Β
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Hey babe :3 don't mind them and if they have anything to say ill follow you to school and they can meet my knee :3
I know many will not agree with violence but on my part not a fuck is given.
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Did I say I love you? If I didn't I probably should... If I did, I will anyway. I FUCKING LOVE YOU!!! ^^
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*presses "like" several hundred times*
To tell you the truth...I think being unable to see gender is a gift...I wish more of us were like that 
Society puts too much emphasis on gender roles anyway.
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Gender roles don't have much to do with physical gender as much as masculinity vs. femininity ratio in each person as well as their interests in doing household things such as washing the dishes vs. cleaning the bathroom. And to the people who want to "Put women in their place" Or "Put men in their place" There really shouldn't be a problem with gender so much as who is submissive and who is dominant in the relationship.
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You're right ^^.
My husband doesn't get it...he's kind of old fashioned. Not that he wants to "put women in their place", but he's the type that thinks "men should act like men and women should act like women"....he doesn't get the concept of transgenderedness or the blurring of the gender lines...I on the other hand embrace and love it and the fact that my husband doesn't kinda irritates me.
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Men who seem to be "traditional" or "Old Fashioned" like to be more gentlemanly (in my experiences) and find it hard to be a gentleman towards women who seem to be more masculine in personality, due to the concept and view of women being "delicate flowers". I don't exactly find it an odd idea or behavior, but it simply shows what kind of women appeal to him and what kind of men he would choose to befriend.
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Yeah, he can be gentlemanly when he wants to be hehe. I'm no βdelicate flowerβ, nor does he expect me to be, but some of his ideas kinda irritate me. He's of the βthe Bible saysβ persuasion...we got married before I became an ally 
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As long as that's not all a relationship consists of, I don't think it should matter too much. Some things can't be changed, and others don't need to be.
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I think my problem is....that when I become passionate about something, I become immersed in it.
And I'm passionate about being an ally...I'm constantly learning new things about the LGBT community and I don't feel like I can share that with him, because he's so stubborn because of his religion.
My best friend is gay and my husband loves him and calls him "the brother he never had"...and I don't know why he can be so close to him and still believe as he does...it hurts me.
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I'm not sure what to say about that. Sometimes, it's best to state how you feel, and other times it's best to say "You have your opinions and I'll have mine on this topic" and not bring it up unless he feels he wants to work it out with you. Who knows, it may just be the idea he's not fond of, but the people he is. (Sorry if that's hard to understand, I'm not great at being specific)
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That's exactly the way it is...we agree to disagree. Maybe I'm just delusional about how marriage is supposed to work. I feel bad that there are things I have to keep from him...I've always thought soul mates were supposed to be able to share everything....
You are right, he doesn't like the idea, but he finds some of the people βdecentβ (usually the non flamboyant ones....he doesn't understand my love for Freddie Mercury hehe). He doesn't understand the feminine acting gay men (or feminine acting men in general, gay or otherwise).
I don't know, but I've always been very interested in people who are different from me. Maybe it's because I was a military brat and was able to meet lots of different types of people during my formative years, when he was raised in Pikeville, KY all his life.
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That does explain a lot, but if it's just this, I wouldn't be too upset. I'm one of those people who doesn't get mad as long as they are informed beforehand, so there are a lot of circumstances that I don't understand.
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Well that's true...he's not vehemently angry about the effeminate guys, and he's not exactly homophobic (depending on what your definition of the word is, 
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I wouldn't force him into it, but I would ask him if he wanted to raise his children to hate and bully. I'm not saying they would, but by default, homophobia is very insulting to many people. I'm not quite sure how to world it, but that's sort of besides the fact. If he still has it in his mind, then talk to him about not teaching your children that homosexuality is wrong. If all else fails, ask him to simply let them decide for themselves and not touch the subject. It's how my parent's were with me. When I confronted my mom about it, she denied that I was bisexual, whereas my dad shrugged it off. Surely this is because I am a girl. It still doesn't stop my dad from wanting me to have my own kids biologically, and I no longer talk to my mom.
Really, if they turn out to be gay, which the chances are slim, just touch on the subject when you get there. In the end, it's best to go with the flow and be open with your opinions and ideas. Don't turn something small like this into a big argument, everything can be taken in segments and small steps. There isn't a hurry and no one needs a big push, because when someone is pushed they only draw back into their ways, and it ends up even harder to pull them out. Coax ideas, suggest things, don't force. It's a long process, and some people may never come out of their ways. I guess I'm saying if all else fails, then leave the subject be, don't teach your kids anything about homosexuality. Don't say it's wrong or right, and they'll develop their own ideas on their own.
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I like the idea of going with the flow, and not making a big deal of it. I'm kind of passionate about things, but sometimes I just don't want to worry about it 
And besides, it's not like he's a raging homophobe...our friend Dustin is "the brother he never had", and Dustin's in a very loving relationship with a sweetie named Travis. And Wayne welcomes them to our house any time 
It'd be a bigger problem if he was like his stepfather...that man is scary! O_O
I also like the idea of letting my kids develop their own ideas. I wish my parents had let me do that. I'd have become an ally so much sooner...
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I think it's funny, most people who are straight, but an ally seem to be more offended than most LBGT people out there. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's just nice to see
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For me, it's because I used to be a homophobe...but then I woke up, so I guess I sort of expect others to be able to as well
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I love you, so much. XD
I'm pansexual and baptist.. But mainly christian due to my beliefs being well, different ish then others of course... -3- But I LOVE YOU babeh
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Why thank you ^^ That icon nearly killed me with laughter XDD
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I am very glad it did my friend XD
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People who blindly quote the Bible (probably not stuff they have even read, but stuff they hear about from others) And do not do their research disgust me. They point to one or two verses and say God hates fags. However, he does not. If you want to read more another deviant on here, aravelle, wrote a lovely paper on what Christianity does and does not say on homosexuality. After reading this, the best people come up with after is "well, God is the creator of the universe so what He(meaning several janked up translators) gave us is what He exactly means because He could change is if he wants to".... yes, that is the best they can muster. I need not explain all the holes in that.
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In all honesty, I haven't read all of the Bible, nor do I ever plan to. But there are specific points in the Bible that I know to bring to light, despite the fact that I do not know the page number or "book" I still know for a fact that it exists somewhere in there. Still, it's enough to piss them off, or prove that they are living "in sin" as they may call it. Most points made, that I know to be relevant to most people today, are things mainly related to marriage. Things such as, "Divorce is sinful," and the idea of abstinence to stay holy, or even, "A marriage does not count if the woman is not a virgin" There are plenty of people today who sleep around even in high school, and therefore would become enraged if these subjects were to be brought up. But knowing these were also true, the person would generally be smart enough to give up the argument all together.
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well a specific religious group that is Christan took the part out of the bible were Jesus said not to have organized religion...they did it so they could rule over those people....religiously of corse...
and if most of those Christian peoples making funof /glare'n at you knew a few more things about me few know, they'd glare at me more than you XD
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XD They only glare cause there are a few football players in the school who are scared shitless of me
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and why are they that scared of you ?
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Because I'm vicious to people who are mean to my brother
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ahhhh.... well....hmmm... the'd still glare at me if the knew more
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YOU FUCKING TELL THEM D:<
i'm tired of people doing shit like that!!
the bible was not only written by man, but has been altered 3 documented times,
not to mention there's many things with in the bible that leave gaps and/or don't make sense but i wont get into that--
THE NEXT TIME THEY SAY SOME SHIT LIKE THAT,
SAY:
"'A marriage shall be considered valid only if the wife is a virgin. If the wife is not a virgin, she shall be executed.' Deuteronomy 22:13-21. I CAN QUOTE THE BIBLE TOO"
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I haven't been approached verbally yet, but when that time comes I know what I'll say. "In the list of what is wrong, God has also listed divorce. No love for Homos no divorce for shitheads. End. Of. Story."
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-slow claps- FUCKEN DO IT.
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XDDD You're awesome! XDDD
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Yes, the bible was written by man. Why do they overlook that fact? I for one will not say it was inspired by god though. There is no proof of that, and if you read the bible from physiology's point of view ,you will see that this God is a self-righteous, narcissistic, vindictive control freak. The bible was clearly written AND inspired by man. I think it is merely an excuse for ppl to hate. Don't get me wrong though, i respect your endeavor to have standards via religion, but i don't think you need religion to be a good persons with high values, or to have hope. Whoever the real god is, I don't think he is anything like the god the christian bible depicts. So in conclusion, stick with what makes sense to you, because, no one can tell you what the truth is. You have to figure that out for your self but, do assume you need to be apart of an organized religion to have hope or belong. You will always have a place among the LGBT community.
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Currently, I say I'm Catholic, some of my views are different and more nature oriented, but until I find who I really am and what I really believe I go by Catholic. Besides, currently, being Catholic might be one of the few things saving me from their "rude awakening". I'm not saying everything in the Bible is wrong or everything is right, but I do believe that human's interpretation of the Bible as well as God is far from correct if they believe that hating is the answer. Currently, only time can tell where all of this hate is going, but I am currently constructing many awareness plans. Helping the LGBT community is one of those plans.
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I'll be rooting for you!
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I'm pretty sure somewhere in the bible it says "Judge not, lest ye be judged." So by hating on you, they are in fact going against the Bible and being hypocrites. And wouldn't their anger be considered "wrath"? A SIN? They have no right to judge you because what they are doing is even worse. Do you know why? You can't help being Pansexual, but they CAN help being jerks towards you.
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I know, and I find it humorous for the most part, but there is also a part of me that is upset that I had been friends with most of these people before. To think that one fact can make people, who I had judged to be fit to be my friends, made them hate me. I choose to say that they are blinded by false opinions or by the way they were raised to be. Once I have actually verbal proof that this goes on (rather than the fact that they're just glaring at me) I will be able to confront them and possibly the school administration. If the school does not support me, my dad will be called in, due to the fact that I'm a minor threats would not be heard.
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I really hope things work out for you. One suggestion I have is to carry some kind of recorder on you so you can get proof is someone messes with you.
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That is a good idea, but recorders of any sort are not allowed in my school. Fortunately, I know not to do anything without a somewhat large crowd around.
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I see, well I'm sure they won't actually to anything physical. It's sad to say, but I think you'll just have to keep your guard up. If worse comes to worse, you can always sue the school!
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Yea, that's what I tell people sometimes. The Bible was spoken from God, but it was written by man. So couldn't man have changed the Bible as they pleased over the years? I mean, some people like to think that man couldn't be able to change the Bibles that are on bookshelves in bookstores today right? Wrong, people can do whatever they please with one Bible as much as the next. Sad, but true. Anyways, I understand how rude people can be to others if they're not straight. Oh well, I can't change that myself, I can just hope for the best right now. I love your letter by the way.
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What I meant by man changed God's words, was in the beginning when it was written down, man more than likely changed God's words after hearing them. Therefore man wrote down most of what God said, but added in irrelevant pieces of his own beliefs that were biased and prejudice. When people translate the Bible into more understandable words and phrases of today, they translate directly from the first written Bible, not changing anything, unless it makes grammatical sense. Also thank you for understanding. All the LGBT community can hope to do is band together and raise awareness through forums or through help groups. Right now there are still areas where principals and teachers will look away, and no teen or anyone else for that matter needs that kind of feedback for being who they are.
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