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Aislinn-Ace [2017-04-25 21:54:08 +0000 UTC]
Im so sorry
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LindArtz In reply to TeaPhotography [2016-05-18 17:23:28 +0000 UTC]
Maybe you are really hearing her, Tea. She may be coming to you as a source of comfort, to let you know in her own way that all is okay with her.
...Lets just say,...until my mother passed away, and I had an experience of my own, I never believed in ghosts. I believe now. Or that they can visit for a time, if the need is strong enough, or if they, themselves, might be especially concerned for the welfare of their loved one. And this includes our critter friends too. (The fact my dog reacted (first) to get my attention, in regards to my mother, was the real proof. My husband was in the room, and his reaction said it all too.
I believe in that Rainbow Bridge, too. Also, your memories and photos will be with you forever. I promise you, the pain will numb as time goes on. It did for me with the loss of my dog Lacey. (I had her for 16 years, since she was 2 months old).
I still miss her dearly and always will. But the pain is not so raw now. She's been gone since 2010.. ( She appeared to my husband, in the form of a cloud, resembling very much my favorite photo of her which is on my profile page - and he just happened to have the camera in his hand! I'll try to dig those pictures up to show you so you can compare... And that was no coincidence either. Let me tell you, when I saw that picture, it was an unspeakable comfort to me; gave me a sense of peach which I can not explain.
Hang in there, sis. !!
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TeaPhotography In reply to LindArtz [2016-05-21 02:18:27 +0000 UTC]
Linda... thank you, for sharing these things with me, from the bottom of my heart!
I believe in all that you have said here- I believe your experiences! Thought it matters most that YOU believe them, but I do believe, also- I've had some similarish experiences of my own, as well...
Every such loss of someone so precious is slightly different, but also so very keen.
I've so far lost two doggies since an adult (lost two as a kid), and two other cats before Katie, but they were super young- one was almost 12 weeks, a Foster we had decided to keep, and then another from a strange tragedy at almost a year old!
And my s.o. was across the county with his mother at the time, and I spent the whole full week going through that alone.
This, Katie Rose, is my first older cat... who, though raised for the first 9 years by my beloved grandma, and then by me the last 9 years, I knew her since a kitten, and the loss is slight different than the very young cats,
my two doggies were definitely older.
And my closest human to pass, thus far, was indeed my beloved grandma, as we were closer than anything, even traveling together just the two of us, even doing the eulogy at her service, my first and only time doing such a thing! And is ONE source of "my experiences" of which I relate to with what you have shared about your mother, and also your beloved pets.
I love you called me sis, sis,
and I actually do want to reply to you know where, it will just be a while.
Actually I've been bed-ridden 3 days in a row for the last 3 weeks- this week it's the 5th day, and mainly because went into the hospital and stayed one night. Due to insurance, wasn't able to stay longer anyway- I can't break the pain cycle, I didn't ask them for anything related to pain meds, and they don't treat many conditions with pain meds anyway, actually what I wanted was to see if they had ANY meds that I didn't already have, so as to break this horrid pain cycle (the migraine derived from central nervous system declining of nerves...) and they did, but basically I slept the whole time, and the following day, I was still in the same amount of raging pain, so the cycle was still not broken. And I was sent home. There was another condition I was being treated for, as wlel.. but, if I remembe I tell you later.
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LindArtz In reply to TeaPhotography [2016-05-21 20:17:00 +0000 UTC]
Yes it's all hard Tea,... but harder the longer we have a pet. I agree. And of course, it goes without saying the depth of the grief we feel when we lose one of our human loved ones. Time, time, and not enough time, is all in the world which can help us with that one. And of course, only second to the comforting hand of God.
I do recall actually the picture you had posted sharing with us the loss of your beloved Grandmother. I remember strongly because I was not watching you you at the time, did not know you in fact, at the time at all. I had stumbled across the photo one day. But it struck me how I was pulled to the image, and then could feel through the cables your grief. It made quite the impression. I left a comment, but remember feeling as I typed out that words,...how "well wishes were pretty much going to be no comfort to you at all". And wishing for you a speedy passage of time in your adjustment period.
I hope you are in a better place today. And you WILL be with your Grandmother again. Take comfort in that knowledge, sis. !!
haha yes, I enjoy calling a selected few "sis";...those who I feel particularly close with. !!
No worries or pressures at all about replying quickly or at all if you don't feel up to it. You just take your time and relax. Especially with all the pain you are in. I wish there was something I could do to ease that for you. I hate feeling helpless when people, or critters that I care for are hurting in any way at all.
So, you just take care of 'you'. It amazes me you can get half the things you do, done. I admire your strength and spirit, Tea!! !!
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TeaPhotography In reply to Aussie-Blonde [2016-05-18 03:05:49 +0000 UTC]
Thank you... it took me so long to try to write something- ANYTHING about her... half because so much else was happening at the same time, but the other half, is trying to bring myself to do it.
Thank you for your very sweet compliments about my writing- if anything, if I didn't write, I don't what I'd do- it remains a very helpful tool for me, simply in being able to "get through" life. I think you know what mean...
I was please to finally get something written about her- she really is a great subject to write about, and her life WAS good with ppl who DID love her, and SO thankfully so-- because her "quirks" put other people off- and her "teal" coloured eyes, made others with superstitions act a bit strange about her.
We got the best part, by getting to know and understand one of the best living creatures ever!
I really appreciate your kind comment, Linley!
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Ingelore [2016-05-15 18:15:14 +0000 UTC]
I'm so sorry for your loss, dear Tea! But she will never really leave you because you will always carry her in your heart and thinking of your time together will make you happy! I really do know how you are feeling right now and I'm sending you some big hugs!
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TeaPhotography In reply to Ingelore [2016-05-18 03:00:20 +0000 UTC]
Thank you so much dearest Ingelore!
I know you're right, and I feel her there, but it also seems I feel her everywhere. Maybe cause it's still so fresh- like I expect to see her, in all her favourite locations... sometimes I think I hear her, and that's just probably part of the same reason.
She WAS such a funny little girl, so thinking about her usually makes me laugh.
But you are also right, you DO know how I'm feeling, how I've been feeling... with your recent little one.
Katie may have lived til nearly 18, but we've had a 1 year old kitty pass with a mysterious tragedy, dear Merlyn, and
a Foster baby kitten who we were keeping, and he was only 8-12 weeks... up and down, until just down... I get so upset by these things. *sigh.
Thank you.
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Anj3lla [2016-05-08 20:19:44 +0000 UTC]
Sorry for your loss, dear Tea.
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TeaPhotography In reply to bergunty [2016-05-07 23:42:47 +0000 UTC]
That's so nice Kelly... I appreciate it. And indeed, she was a family member, a for a long time.
I like the part you quoted, there were a lot of funny things about her- she was kind of born "crotchety", even as a kitten, though had her sweet moments, and ya just had to "learn her"
Yeah, I guess her facial expression didn't change too much, you're right- we went a lot by body language, to know when she was being sweet.
The top right, she's actually going "What the heck is happening over THERE!" (between two other cats)
I love the bottom left, because in the middle of folding CLEAN T-shirts during laundry, she help herself to sitting on top of that pile- she did do soooo many things that made us laugh.
Just the way she walked or ran- with a puff for a tail like a bunny, her back two legs would hop simultaneously, and she seriously did look like a bunny- I guess because of the Manx breed. It was adorable.
My favourite is the middle bottom with heavier frame (older photo) because being on her back with her arms "hugging herself" as some cats will do, is a sign of trust, being sweet, and in general being in a good mood.
So, yeah. But overall, she was seen as a stern character. I mean to be on death row as young as she was!!
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bergunty In reply to TeaPhotography [2016-05-08 14:46:12 +0000 UTC]
Aww....that's pretty sad that she was on death row as a kitten for being a bit prickly, but I guess it worked out in the end as she ended up with your grandparents and you.
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crazygardener [2016-05-07 01:16:25 +0000 UTC]
sorry for your loss.....
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ImADiablo [2016-05-07 00:13:51 +0000 UTC]
Loss*
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LuLupoo [2016-05-07 00:08:30 +0000 UTC]
Very sorry to hear about Katie Rose Tea. She certainly look like a beauty. RIP sweet little Katie. My condolences to your grandmother.
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